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WHAT TO DO TILL LOVE FINDS YOU

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Are you awaiting your future spouse or partner? Rather than soliloquies on what LOVE would find you, why don’t you use the time to develop yourself.

As a woman it is relevant to know that no man wants an idle woman as a wife. Instead of staying indoors awaiting when your prince charming would come and sweep you off your feet why don’t you invest in yourself? Let your prince charming find you busy doing something worthwhile with your life.

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With Nigeria’s present economy , nobody wants a LIABILITY but an ASSEST.

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I have put up a list of things you can do to keep yourself busy.

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1) DEVELOP YOURSELF : Rather than wait for marriage, let marriage wait for you. Use this time to invest in yourself and build yourself up. If you are the childish type – seize this opportunity and grow yourself up. Go back to school, enroll for a professional course, learn a trade, apply for jobs, train yourself up & being better. Nobody wants to marry a liability, so be an asset to your spouse.

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2)Β SERVE GOD :Β Even the scripture acknowledge the fact that singlehood is the best time to serve God. As a spinster or bachelor; who doesnot have your spouses or kids to think about, you tend to focus more on your relationship with God. Don’t be a liability in your fathers house. Find anything worthwhile to do in church or make yourself readily available for God’s works. The more time you spend with God, the more everything around you start working fine.

3)Β FIND YOUR PURPOSE :Β Who are you? Why are you here? What is your purpose? These are questions for you to ask yourself. Your purpose in life is not only to be a wife or a mother – you have so much more to offer to the world. Self-discovery is said to the best discovery. You need to discover your calling – yiur talents, skills, potentials, gifts, etc and make good use of it. It is only when you know who you are that you can know the tyoe of man to marry.

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4) MAKE MONEY :Β Like i said in the first point, as a lady you should have something you are doing that is generating income. As a man, you should also have an income that you can use ti raise your family.

5) TRAIN/PREPARE YOURSELF FOR MARRIAGE :Β Though you can never be 100% prepared for marital life, but you need to be at least 80% ready. Thank God for writers today, you can find a lot of books, articles that are written on marriage. Ensure you have a knowledge/insight into what yiu are about to enter into. Prepare yourself physically, mentally, socially, spiritually, and financially.

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6) SPEND TIME WITH GOD :Β As a Christian, you have ti develoo a closer relationship with yiur Creator. Soemd more time ready the Bible, praying, confession etc. Learn to have your QUIET TIME as frequently as possible. Be a lover of the Bible, there are several words of wisdom/nuggets on marriage, your purpose that can help you. Know yhat the Bible can never mislead you.

7) WORK ON YOUR CHARACTER :Β Tbis is very important! Anybody you will marry will likely marry you because of your charisma, beauty, character or personality. There is no one who loves an hot tempered, lazy, angry or childish partner. There are many homes that have broken because of bad character.

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The period where you await your partner, should be one of self discovery. Before you start searching for the Mr Right ensure you are also a Mrs Right.

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